You Can’t Change the Seasons, but you Can Change Yourself.

Seasons, come and seasons go. The days, weeks, months and years pass by. April showers are to bring May flowers they say.

Today, as I look out the window, I see big beautiful fluffy snowflakes floating down from the fully overcast sky. Everything outside is white again. The bows of the trees are hanging low, the animals are taking cover, and the temperature is sitting at a mild 2 degrees celsius.

It is nothing that we haven’t seen before here in central Alberta Canada throughout our spring months. Actually, it is very welcoming moisture on our land, as the ground has been fairly dry the last year or two.

I remember years ago, being told from an older person than I, (most likely close to the age I am today), that even though our bodies that we live within, begin to wear down, our minds continue to remain young. Back then, I didn’t understand what that meant.

Today, I truly understand what that person was saying. At the age of 57, I look back on the years of my life, and smile at some of my past experiences that today, has helped me to make changes in what I would choose to do moving forward.

Back when I was a teenager, I was an athlete that competed in track and field, and basketball. Running long distances was my forte. I was positioned at the starting line, along with several other gals my age. Waiting anxiously and nervously at the same time for the sound of the air gun to go off. BAM! “And they’re off!”

We hadn’t gotten very far, when I got tripped up in amongst my competitors. Down I went, with my knees and palms of my hands kissing the rough laden asphalt. The girls continued on. And I………..didn’t get up. At least, not to keep running.

I’ve never forgotten that moment. Not because of the blood on my body caused by the scrapes I endured. Nor the embarrassment of a young adolescent in front of her peers. What I have taken from that moment and utilized over the years, is that no matter how hard you fall, no matter how difficult the situation, one needs to get up, dust yourself off, and continue on.

I’ve opened the closet door, unpacked my dusty camera bag, charged the batteries, cleaned the lenses, and decided it’s time for some changes in my life. I never thought of me to be a professional photographer from years gone by, but an amatuer that loved to tell a story through the lens.

Who knows where photography will take me, but if I never make the change to begin, nothing will ever change. Here are just a few of my favorite shots taken at a Skijoring Event nearby just a few weeks ago.

Are there things in your life you’d like to change? Consider taking that step to begin the dream you’ve always dreamt.

From Home on the Ranch


“When we are no longer able to change a situation…….we are challenged to change ourselves.” Viktor E. Frankl

16 thoughts on “You Can’t Change the Seasons, but you Can Change Yourself.

    • Hello Erla. Thank you for letting me know that my writing makes you happy! That is awesome to hear! Take Care

      • I missed it but my kids saw your wagon up here in GP on the w/e!! So that was exciting! Is Rick going to drive again??

  1. Hello Sue
    Wow, so good to read from you again. A single day of getting to know each other in 2013 and never forgotten since then. We hope you and your family are doing well and we will follow your reports.
    Best regards Danja and Angelo from Switzerland

  2. Your photos are truly stunning, Sue! There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that you will excel at professional photography. 👍❤️

  3. Hi Sue,

    I am delighted that you are sharing your writings again. My Mom and I really enjoyed your commentary on the Big Wagons. We are/were long time fans. We were introduced to the Big Wagons in Swan River, Manitoba in the 1960’s. She completed her life in May 2019 so I no longer find watching the coverage I can find nearly as interesting as when she and I could discuss what we saw and who we thought had the best trained teams.

    It will be fun for me to follow along in your journey. I retired in 2016 but only this year do I really feel like this is now my life. A big adventure! A few more trips to plan and implement now that it is easier to travel.

    All the best and know that your words and photos are most inspiring. Wishing you a lack of writer’s block, chuckle.

    Grateful, DGB.


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  4. So glad to read your words of wisdom once again. I remember having snow last April around this time, actually just after my Birthday (17th). Thank you for sharing!!

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